That's what I think. I could rattle off several things H does that are 'annoying' on some level, but I would never leave him/cheat on him b/c of some little annoying habits.....that is part of love, accepting someone. That little red flag flew up at Retrouvaille when we journaled on accepting each other, I said I could/did accept H as he was and he said he WANTED to accept me flaws and all but there were parts of me he DIDN'T accept.........