A "red flag" as in maybe the A is ongoing? Or just a general red flag?
I told him I wouldn't be ready to discuss him moving back into our home until he was ready to be totally transparent. Our divorce date is January 9th - he wants me to dismiss it, but at this point, his continued hiding of information doesn't give me much faith in him.
SuperStar,
His first wife (HS sweetheart) left him for OM. He left his second wife when she gave him an ultimatum - have a baby or leave. So he left. All the children are mine w/my first husband.
