We're all grown people so I'll let you know where we are without putting out too much detail. Last night and previous nights W is quite happy for us to go to bed together snuggle in the spoon position and go to sleep, it quite obvious that I'm aroused and wide awake and that doesn't bother her. (9 months ago she would jump out of the bed if I pressed ant thing against her). I'm not prevented from going north or south but she not taking any part in giving or taking pleasure. On the couple of occasions in the morning when she been in the mood I haven't really cos I've resorted to taking some relief in the shower the previous evening hence I wake up with nothing in the tank. I hope that clears up any confusion. (No shame for me in that just a bit of embarrassment typing it out now).
Fb2 (really appreciate you stopping by) Since I mention to W that we need to talk about sex she's avoided all talk in that area, that's how she's always been. I knew she would be like that and anyway I can't force her to talk so not sure what to apart from keep moving forward as we are. W and I have been together 15 year and I still don't know what her think is. I kinda know what the thing was with OM, W traded down a good few levels and it was just sex with a dirty, skanky, tramp where there was going to be no long term commitment (this is my assessment). If W is silently crying out for me to do this, or do that, or meet some needs in the sex department she is not giving any clues, so me as a DAM, Advanced DAM back to DAM I have NFC. So I'll keep taking things as slow as I can without becoming a pest and see where we go.
