Sorry--I had a few crises du jour happening here in the school nurse's office.
I have been in a real quandary about what to do here. I'm just really tired of grovelling to H about money. I shouldn't have to do it. I think he must believe that his covering the majority of the credit card/consumer debt and D's tuition is his contribution to support. And he's not going to "give" me any more without making me jump thru hoops--that's just where he is on his little narcissistic journey. It's going to have to come from his lawyer, or the judge. I'm also not sure my L knows just how bad it is--I think I've been too general in my conversations with him. Perhaps an email, with specifics, would be more helpful--documentation wise.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012