Maybe I should be in piecing part 3?

[Hope4us]

OK, ok, ok.....wait, wait, wait....back that bus wayyy up......

I'm not sure why you think she needs to figure anything out. She's with you, making love to you, vacationing with you, spending time with friends with you, talking about the future with you, giving you here thoughts and time,.......etc. etc.

Maybe she doesn't want to move....but, I don't think it has to do with not wanting to be with you. A move is stressful period. And, you are assuming she knows all the reasons why you want to move. I still think she doesn't.

You thinking she is going to leave you some day again is where this is coming from. This is because you guys haven't talked about some necessary things that would put you at ease. WHen is the ending time of "no relationship talk" that you put into affect?


What you guys have been through and rebuilding is going to take lots of time and patience and communication.

Ok, first I have to say, she only ML to me while on vacation and one night the weekend when we got home. Since then she' been on the couch again. Some hugs and she'll kiss me if I make the move, but it's not like she's initiating any of it.

She needs to figure stuff out because to me, this is one thing that she could do to SHOW me where she's at. And it sounds like she's balking again.

But I hear what you're saying. I'll think about it. Maybe leave it for the car ride home after we've had a good weekend.

And my no R talk promise was "I won't bring this up again until you're ready to talk".

So that's where we are.

We're leaving in a few. I'll keep in mind what you guys have said and update you when we get back.