FWIW I'm with Puppy. I know you all know my real first name, but I don't think I have ever posted the names of my kids or even H. Thats why I changed my member name too, the old one when googled led right to this forum and its a name that H knows I use/used. This forum has always been the place where I can say, pretty much whatever I want/need to and I don't want that to change. Remember a couple of months ago when someone's gf found their thread and posted some ugly stuff? I know my H would be extremely unhappy and embarrassed to know the details of what he has/is doing is being posted on an almost daily basis. It would also probably really piss him off if he knew some/most of the things I haven't told him that I post here.

Just my .02 as well.

Sorry for the TJ.

Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 11/20/08 08:56 PM.
M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option