For the Guy with Kids and a WW Neunzehn(19)

[Sugar and Spice]

She believes that, in her small mind, we are NOT married anymore. The we haven't been married for quite some time. That we didn't have a marriage when when we were at home together and that DEFINATELY not now. Her mind has been made up for a long time now.
She truly believes that we are not husband and wife.

I don't believe that for one second. She is not convinced of that at all. If she was, she wouldn't need to have any of the "extra" contact with you. She wouldn't invite you to stay for dinner, go places, etc...with you if he REALLY believed that. You have posted a lot about your faith and church attendance, she KNOWS she is married. She is trying to convince herself that this is ok, even though she KNOWS its not.
Its amazing what the waywards can try and make themselves believe even though in their hearts they know its not.

[Sugar and Spice]

The only reason she called me was because she was mad.

Shes got the same shoes to get glad in...

[Puppy Dog Tails]

This is off-topic, but I'm noticing a bunch of folks using what appear to be their family's REAL NAMES in their posts lately. Not sure if this is a carry-over from the "alternate universe" or what, but aren't you a little concerned that this is a PUBLIC forum, and you're putting all these personal details out there??

I never used more than "S15", "D21" or "The Fetching Mrs. Puppy" type references.

Puppy

[hopeful4her]

I'm not sure. I think it IS a carryover from "over there". I don't think that I would post our last names here, but I feel comfortable puting our first names.

They may been a slip up at first, but you know, and others may not realize, how much info is public out there anyway.

What are your thoughts? What if we DID know your first name?

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I wouldn't bother me. I've implied, at various times, both my first AND my last name on here, for those who were clever enough to figure it out. But I would personally never put my KIDS' names on here.

That's just me tho.

[hopeful4her]

I think it's the friendship and comfort level that we have formed here. Like we are the only ones speaking directly to each other.

I understand your concern, however. Makes one think. Who knows WHO is looking.

[Sugar and Spice]

FWIW I'm with Puppy. I know you all know my real first name, but I don't think I have ever posted the names of my kids or even H. Thats why I changed my member name too, the old one when googled led right to this forum and its a name that H knows I use/used. This forum has always been the place where I can say, pretty much whatever I want/need to and I don't want that to change. Remember a couple of months ago when someone's gf found their thread and posted some ugly stuff? I know my H would be extremely unhappy and embarrassed to know the details of what he has/is doing is being posted on an almost daily basis. It would also probably really piss him off if he knew some/most of the things I haven't told him that I post here.

Just my .02 as well.

Sorry for the TJ.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I think it's the friendship and comfort level that we have formed here. Like we are the only ones speaking directly to each other.

'cept that we're not. Just try Googling your username sometime.

[whatdidido]

Since you are home..........and perhaps have more time to talk to vultures that flap their wings.........I thought maybe you could use another video to occupy your time..........

:):):):)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ED2ZnQ5rFIY&feature=channel

[Hope4us]

This is off-topic, but I'm noticing a bunch of folks using what appear to be their family's REAL NAMES in their posts lately. Not sure if this is a carry-over from the "alternate universe" or what, but aren't you a little concerned that this is a PUBLIC forum, and you're putting all these personal details out there??

I never used more than "S15", "D21" or "The Fetching Mrs. Puppy" type references.

Puppy

Yeah! Puppy is radio active don't cha know?