nc... happy birthday to S4... Guess what My son's birthday is the same day!! He'll be 3 yrs old.

Im sure a lot of your son't behavior is learned behavior from what he has seen. More so from your Stbx... Its not good. All you can do is been there for him and be firm but loving.

I don't really know anything about aspergers, but is there some sort of support group for that?

You have every right to become defensive especially when it has to do with the boys, that's only natural, if you didn't I would wonder.

Im sorry your going through such a rough spot. I pray for you and your beautiful boys.

\:\) ~ *hugs*

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.