Originally Posted By: hopeful4her
She believes that, in her small mind, we are NOT married anymore. The we haven't been married for quite some time. That we didn't have a marriage when when we were at home together and that DEFINATELY not now. Her mind has been made up for a long time now.
She truly believes that we are not husband and wife.


I don't believe that for one second. She is not convinced of that at all. If she was, she wouldn't need to have any of the "extra" contact with you. She wouldn't invite you to stay for dinner, go places, etc...with you if he REALLY believed that. You have posted a lot about your faith and church attendance, she KNOWS she is married. She is trying to convince herself that this is ok, even though she KNOWS its not.
Its amazing what the waywards can try and make themselves believe even though in their hearts they know its not.


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option