OK, ok, ok.....wait, wait, wait....back that bus wayyy up......
I'm not sure why you think she needs to figure anything out. She's with you, making love to you, vacationing with you, spending time with friends with you, talking about the future with you, giving you here thoughts and time,.......etc. etc.
Maybe she doesn't want to move....but, I don't think it has to do with not wanting to be with you. A move is stressful period. And, you are assuming she knows all the reasons why you want to move. I still think she doesn't.
You thinking she is going to leave you some day again is where this is coming from. This is because you guys haven't talked about some necessary things that would put you at ease. WHen is the ending time of "no relationship talk" that you put into affect?
What you guys have been through and rebuilding is going to take lots of time and patience and communication.
