Hi, I ve read there are 2 kinds of people, the ones that are satisfied with "general info" as Tipper describes and the other ones that need to "construct and deconstruct" the story of the affair. I am the second kind. I need everything. Especially since now we are trying to piece after a year of separation. It bothers me he probably had an affair (doesnt admitt it) but I need to know how it happened and right now how it ended and why... K
But I do agree that once everything is out and discussed, the issue should not be coming up again and again... I have seen "her". It did matter then, it doesnt now.