Good job Sep, way to see the positives. The "I don't know"s or "we'll see"s are annoying at times but always better than a flat out no.
I love that he was concerned for you, that is a very sweet and good sign.
Also congrats on the raise. That's always exciting.
Is your h gonna be busy until after Thanksgiving or until after Christmas? I hope you guys can get together soon! Keep trying and eventually it will work out.