T2L, I wish you could bottle some of this good advice and sell it! Need to hear this today.

Also if you get a chance go to Playhouse - YOYO. She has been a great Dber and she thought maybe her H was backpedaling to OW and I told her about Plan A/Plan B and said you would be the one to talk to.
take care...where is everybody else.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09