((((Tawnya))))! I'm glad you went to the see the attorney. You might not feel it now, but at some point, you may be really glad you did it and did it early.
I'd pray about putting together a settlement agreement...about whether or not to do it. I told H he'd have to do ours (which he did and delivered to my work email today!) because I didn't agree with the D on any level. But, in my case, H is feeling pretty guilty still so I knew I'd come out better if he did it! I'm too nice, and I might have let some things slide that he included! So, now he can't argue them...that's good for me!!!
Just don't be too nice, Tawnya...I think you and I might have a thing or 2 in common, and the truest thing folks here have said about the settlement is that it's no time to be nice...it's all business!!!
Keep praying...that will get you through...and, keep trying to get together with the friend for the coffee.
Love you! Amy
p.s. I heard you might be taking a trip in December! I really hope so!!!
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!