Hi Julia,

Just my quick two cents worth...If you really, truly want to be friends with your H, then I would say email him. My guess is that after a time of acting as-if, it will become more natural, and hopefully a new friendship will develop. I think all of your actions need to back up your new plan.

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!