guys..the reality of the sitch is that there will be other men around your children. you can't control what your STBX does, who she sees or marries in the future..
the reality of the sitch is you will have other women around your children.
there is not one thing you can do other than say that thee be no overnight stays unless one of you remarries..and even if you say that how will you make sure it's enforced...
you can do nothing..
be a great dad. spend time with your kids. let them know how much you love them...let your actions show them how much you love them..
