Another wife hit by the bomb #3

[Tawnya]

Tom..yeah..I just want him to cover the basic stuff when he moves out at the first of the year, like he says he is going to..at least the mortgage..sigh..

I just dunno if he's really thought that thru..and then I think, should I come up with a separation agreement that spells all that out, and then I think I don't want to have to come up with any of this cause I don't want any of this..so I guess I should wait and see what he tells me his plans are as far as moving out/forward toward the beginning of the year and THEN I will tell him I want some sort of agreement drawn up about child support/mortgage/when the kids come over, etc..I guess?

Tawnya