I most definitely agree it's not a good time for us to NOT be together Pup, but I also think that it might be the only way she'll figure things out. I just feel like with us together in the house like it is, she has no way of feeling what she's possibly losing.

Maybe it's the last ditch effort at saving our marriage. And with S16 staying with her until the end of the school year, it's not like she's going to be able to be out running around when I'm not here. At least not without me knowing about it.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.