Nothing new, same old frustrations and still party

[Little Engine]

Sorry A, I meant that if you can sort out those things now with the sols that will likely crop up down the road it will save you money. I worry my W will remarry some man with children younger than ours and when my kids are ready to go to college W's new H won't be forthcoming with $ because he wants to use it for his own younger children. It is planning for those sort of doomsday scenarios that makes it worthwhile to have it laid out now. I am thinking W and I need to each contribute a certain amount every month to an education fund four our kids. Otherwise, she won't put any away and when it is time for our kids to go off to school, I will be contributing 100% and she will have nothing. Those are the sorts of things I meant by spending money now to save headaches later.

I hate the prospect of another man being a part of my children's day to day lives as well. You've read my posts, you understand my anger and frustration and it is because of that. I don't agree with W's choice. He is a principal at a school who is supposed to be a role model. He can't find a suitable woman on his own so he goes out and finds my W who is so miserable in her M and makes himself out to be Mr. Perfect. A role model would encourage my W to exhaust every means possible to save our M for the saek of the kids, instead he exhausts every means possible to smother my W with attention and get her into bed. Some role model! I don't want him around our kids. What can we do?