And I think I'm going to tell W I agree with her that she and S16 should stay until the school year is complete. This will accomplish two things. First, it will let W see that I am willing to listen to her opinion. I don't think it would be an issue for S16 to change schools mid year, but W claims that she thinks it would be best if he completed the year here. Probably just her way of delaying moving herself, but in a way I think it will be good. Kind of like a separation where she can see what it's like without me around. Could be good or could be bad, but I think it'll be good. She can see what she's missing but I'll still come home on weekends etc.
I like this approach. It's a little risky, but I like it as i think the good (showing that you're listening, and flexible) outweighs the bad (you guys not being together at a critical time in your marriage).
