Maybe I should be in piecing part 3?

[Hope4us]

Thank You so much Kat. I went to lunch and thought about it and have calmed down. I'm just so FREAKIN frustrated that she won't talk to me and it helps to come here and vent and then my friends here can set me straight and help me see the positives.

I agree about the old boss. He routinely tells W she should come to MN where he works and he'd find a job for her. They worked really well together, plus he's a hound and W loves that attention (ok, kind of scares me).

New friend, you could be right. She called W last night and I don't know what she asked, but I heard W say "it's quiet". So I would assume M asked her how it was at home last night. But the rest of the conversation was W listening and asking M some questions about how it was going to be when she got home etc. I know M and her H have had some problems so maybe W and M are talking about their mutual bast*ard H's?

I'm sure I have it pegged with EGF. I'm SURE. I would bet my retirement that EGF is telling W she doesn't have to move and she should stay here etc. EGF is so wrapped up in herself and tries to play it off as concerned about W when that's just bullchit. So this move will be GREAT in that it will get W away from EGF's destructive influence.

You're right, we do have a fun weekend ahead. And I know W will be different by tomorrow morning. It's the same every weekend. Away from work she's a different person.

And I think I'm going to tell W I agree with her that she and S16 should stay until the school year is complete. This will accomplish two things. First, it will let W see that I am willing to listen to her opinion. I don't think it would be an issue for S16 to change schools mid year, but W claims that she thinks it would be best if he completed the year here. Probably just her way of delaying moving herself, but in a way I think it will be good. Kind of like a separation where she can see what it's like without me around. Could be good or could be bad, but I think it'll be good. She can see what she's missing but I'll still come home on weekends etc.

And if she likes me not being around, then at least we'll be done with this limbo and I can move on with my life.

Thanks again Kat. You're a keeper.