Hi Hmama! Yeah, I remember one other member, MotherMovingOn, also having problems with living in Indiana and these laws. She had to be very diplomatic with her H. Maybe you should check out her threads and see how she handled it. Might give you some hints.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim