Got to tell you a funny story about checking the phone...
When I came home Monday night (drinks with boss) H was sound asleep on the couch and he had left his phone on but it was on the dining room table. So I tried to look. I still can't fiqure out how to check his outgoing calls. I can only see what contacts he has saved. Anyway, I must have pressed something in my looking, because he comes home from work the other day and asks if I was looking at his phone, apparently when I was trying to figure it out I reset his background? Duh! I REALLY didn't need that last glass of wine.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.