Tonight I went over to his place. I tried to call first but I got the machine.
He was sleeping and came to the door. I went in and kissed him hello he responed bak but was groggy. He asked how it went at the doctor (I went to get a med since the condom broke alst night) and we disccused this for a while. He was great, supportive and said you seem freaked out.
I said that I just wasnt sure how he would take everything given we are not established. He was again supportive but did not say much. Just that he understood and he placed his hand on my knee. And that he appreciated me running it all by him. And he said *are you feeling better and I said *yes now that I talked to you I feel better. I know I can be melodramatic so thanks for being so cool. He said *No THANK YOU.
Then we sat for three hour talking about stuff. Good convo.
NO R talk. Which I think he appreciated. Just kinda hung out and he was great. He could have gone out with friends I am sure.
I said that I was going to go and he said OK. He walked me to the car and I said *How bout we try for Monday to do something. He said Monday, ok. Then I said *are you ok with me asking you to do things and he said *yes. Then I said *you know you can ask me to do things to...in a nice funny tone. He laughed and said *Ok, boy I am never going to live that down! I said * yeah I know about workin for it but. Again all laughing.
So I said *Ill talk to you Sunday. He said *Ok Ill call you and I said *yep I wait for you to call. He said* yep Ill call you. laughing again.
Then he kissed me gently and we hugged. He said* you smell good. I know I dont smell good. I said * no really, you smell fine.
Anyway, again sometimes good DBing means good communication and not waiting to read their mind or doing something that is causing you pain. I am glad I tried. But patience is key. I still have to work on it.
