I might be in the same situation, see me at "Probably Coming Back," he's not back yet. Hoping he will be, is living with OW, not having sex with OW with from what he tells me. I have been having sex with H and this just started about a month ago. He gets done work at 2:30 so he'll call me at work to see if I can sneak out, which I have done a few times. This is not like me either. In the past work has always been more important, but I have been leaving to see him which is a 180 for me. I do say ILU, he doesn't say it back, I also tell him I miss him, he doesn't say it back, but that's okay for now. Sex was one of the things that was missing from our R towards the end and he enjoys it a lot. Afterwards is when we're close and he'll start opening up to me.
I really don't see anything wrong with it. I'm still his W he's still my H and there's a lot more passion then there's been in a long time and I'm enjoying it, too.
Even though I'm not a "veteran" of this board, I think it's okay and am not going to stop meeting him if he calls and asks. I'm hoping this will draw him back home to me.
