Hi Yoyo, go over the marriagebuilders.com site. It will give you some good info. What you have to decide is how long you are willing to wait without starting to get resentment and your relationship turning bitter because H can't make up his mind. I will tell T2L to look at your stich. You have done remarkably well during this time and you know everyone on this board is always rooting for a success story. good luck
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09