Ok, step back a moment and let's not jump to conclusions. So she spoke with her old boss and he offered her her old job back. That doesn't "sound" like a negative. Then she responded that he would probably just get transferred as soon as she got there. This means she is thinking about all of this.
Now since we don't really know what was said between "new friend" and W, we can guess that she was talking about the move and how maybe she is a sad about it. Kind of neutral.
With EGF, you may have it pegged. But really why keep getting worked up when you have a fabulous weekend planned and you are going to have it ruined before it gets started. Keep showing the strong you, that this needs to be done for the good of the "family" but also for your peace of mind.
We are here for you.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory