Hope3343, Thanks for filling me in on the plan. I would definitely say I have filled his love bank. I have told him before that I couldn't be in a relationship with 3. He will then panic and do better. Things will be going great and then he withdraws a little.
Right now I wouldn't say he has withdrawn a tremendous amount, but he is different than he was prior to the trip. I can't say that anyone on the trip had anything to do with it, becaue I know they think he was crazy for what he did walking out on the marriage and taking up with OW.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon