SD...thanks for stopping by...and, Sandi's right...I had a goal; I worked towards it; I accomplished it; and I made some really great friends along the way!!! That's good for the PMA!
Sandi, I just wanted to say I love you!!! Wish I had suggestions on the LL thing. I'll keep thinking about it, and we'll both keep praying about it!
And, you know what? Someone will be lucky to find me!! I must be pretty cool...cause if I wasn't, you wouldn't be wanting to adopt me!!!
Hugs to you!!! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
checking in on you. how are you today? I saw some of your pictures on FB and you look so happy and great....
thanks for stopping by my thread... always appreciated... I talked to H for an hour last night so I will update my thread later as I'm flying back home this morning from a business trip..
thinking of you...
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
Well...just this second I got an email with his proposed draft settlement agreement attached!
Interesting that he sent an email as he was at the house this morning to drop stuff off and discuss getting at gift of S6's b-day party. Looks like he could have just left it with me then.
I'm okay. It did sting a little, but, I'll get past that! Not like I didn't see it coming, right? I'm in a better place than I was even just a few weeks ago, that's for sure. Hope he is too although I'm doubting that's the case...at least he didn't smell like liquor when he dropped the stuff off this morning!
The settlement was fair...it should be pretty straight forward...FL's a no-fault state. Just a few details to iron out...nothing major. They shouldn't pose any problems that will lead to delays.
Wow! I could actually be single by March 1st! I know that God has good things in store for me. I just wish I knew now what they were! That would make the whole journey easier for us all, wouldn't it?
Love you guys! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
hugs sis!!! you are holding it together beyond well!! I am so proud of you! sending you lots of prayers and love.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
I'm doing okay!!! I did have to take a few minutes to consider my plight...I have great friends, great, healthy kids, a roof over my head, a decent job, wonderful parents...who are still healthy and a decent settlement offer from my STBXH!
Life could be so much worse. God's in control, and He's good! I'll be fine!!!
I do have to say that I'm so glad I found you all!! I've made lifelong friends here! As I told a friend the other night, you don't share a crisis with someone like we have here and then just walk away from those relationships!!
So, while I may be embarking on a new part of my journey, I hope you will all be here to see me through it!
Love you all! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
Amy--No matter how prepared you think you are it is still a bit of a kick when you see it black on white. You are doing so great though and you realize that you have a lot to offer the world. D doesn't define us, it is just an event in our lives. That is what I have learned from DC. I'm happy that you found a friend in SA and were able to share your insight with her. There can be no telling the effect that might have.
LE
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
Sweetie Pie, you sound so good and strong! I think you really are in a good place right now and I believe a lot of that is b/c you were finally able to turn it over to God and so He is helping you with this stuff. As far as knowing the journey ahead of us......wouldn't that take the mystery out of it for us? You have the right mind set as for seeing it as a journey....think of it as a good journey b/c God is going to help you and make a path for you. You did what you were suppose to do and that was all that He expected out of Amy. And that will not go unnoticed by Him.
As far keeping up with the folks around here.....girl, where do you think you are going anyway??? (lol) I thought they had computers in just about everyplace in the world!
I know you are going to get busy and like most people that reach a good place in their life, they tend to keep in touch less and less....but that is to be expected. Just want to hear from my girl sometimes......Oh shoot, now I'm tearing up.
Well, I'll talk later, sweetie.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
