((( DQ ))) - One of the big things my W and I did when we reconciled was to move to a different house. The change of venue was needed and really improved our attitudes towards one another. Many of our disagreements were over the old house: its location, the schools, the constant remodeling and fixing (as soon as one thing was fixed 3 other things would break. )
It seems like it wouldn't make such a big difference to move on, but it does. My wife, like you, had a sentimental attachment to that old house. It was our first house, all of our memories of our daughter as a baby were there. Holidays with family members now gone were there. So many memories, they will still be our memories, the house though was too small, too much work and too stressful.... It was time to leave it physically behind us.
This is a great decision you and he have made. You are about to build your new lives together. Once you have that new place, you will be building your new memories of each other together there. I'm so happy for you. I knew you could find the answers.
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