Puppy I did not say that the acknowledged failures on your part were the moral equivalent of her adultery. They absolutely are NOT the same! She blew it in a much more devastating way than you did, yes.
I'm sorry, then, I misunderstood you when you said this:
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When you TRULY accept your role in where your marriage is at today, you will see that this is not a system of points, where she got more demerits because her indiscretion was WORSE. They are ALL bad. ALL of our failures in ALL of our relationships are ALL bad and they added up to what brought us here. No one got here by their spouse's hand alone. We ALL helped steer our respective "ships" into the rocks.
