Julia, you said...

You sent him a pretty powerful email and he has so far not responded. So I dont think you should email him about the carol concert. Any friendship you two manage to have would have to be arrived at AFTER you get past this swkward juncture of you telling him, that you now know that he is moving in with someone..? Until then, I dont think you should "act as-if" and send him a friendly invite to your concert. It also just seems a bit too unreal. Thats just me though! Dont know what others think?

Al x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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