And for all the talk he has made no plans I have talked to him once this morning and he said he would "start looking for a place to stay" like he hadn't been looking. I said do you have an idea how you want it to be until the holidays are over he said he hadn't even begun to think about any of that.
So I guess he has focused on, "I am not happy I am miserable here" without moving on to planning what to do besides complain and agonize....
