Thank you all for the posts. Lan, pleased to see you make an appearance, I know you from K's thread.
I am just trying to sort out the 'mom' in me from the 'wife' in me.
Mom wants to try and keep this boat together through the holidays b/c the kids will have plenty more Christmases in 2 places so she wants to give them one more together....
Wife wants to get H as far away as quickly as possible b/c nothing good is coming from being together. Space will help her work on detaching and also help H discover as he already knows, that W is not the root of his problems...
