W has to go to get lunch for kids - says nice talking - me too. I know I have it in me to have a civil, upbeat discussion with my w.
Yes you do. You can do it.
Originally Posted By: Kakatal
I do not see the negatives about having her validate what I know to be a problem I have with my behavior. I think that shows her that I am aware of it & now I have to make changes, something I need to change for me since it is a bad fault of mine that needs improvement.
Yes it does. Now you know that she knows that you know what your problems are so no more discussions on them. Knowing is half the battle the other half is doing. Your done with the first now do the second. Actions not words from here on out.