[quote] [Hopefully it is, and that's when I think the shift to "friends" can occur. I primarily viewed Puppy's question in light of a NEW LBS, and stand by my position on telling a newcomer to try to be their wayward spouse's friend could be too damaging in the beginning. /quote]
I agree with you. In the beginning I really tried hard to be H's friend through it all, and through the pain, but it's too self destructive. Now, with more time, distance and detachment a friendship is slowly growing and possible.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
