Not only is OW back..but something is up...let me tell you guys this, as a man..if a former cheerleader, wearing a skirt straddles my no good sorry assss while I'm laying on the couch..and "grabs the package" then "it's on"...the only thing that might stop me is a defective package..
see to a man in this sitch..it would have been about sex IMO..may sound shallow on my part but it would have been..Dan's not emotionally connected right now so why turn down sex?? Why turn down sex with BBJ..it's because he's getting it somehwere else or there is something he does not want to pass along..IMO..
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Then he said it was quite a statement that when he told his own family he was having problems with me, they all stood up for me and took my side, not his. He said it really sucks that my whole family loves you more than they love me....
I know how he feels here..Same thing after my first D.. I thing what is construed as taking sides is actually his side trying to make the best of a bad sitch..but I can see how he feels..my mom used to be really nice to my 1st ex..it would make me furious..
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I have never found a counselor yet that I thought was helpful. And all I want is just for someone to listen to me. ONE PERSON to stop trying to tell me what to do and how to live my life and how to fix me, one person to JUST listen to me."
How many has he looked for?? How many times has he went?? 4 maybe?? Oh I'm sure there is one out there somewhere who will take his money and listen to him vent...
problem with Dan is he knows that if he goes and sticks with it then he will "fix" himself..
Move forward BBJ....continue to move forward..like I said yesterday..no expectations and just move forward..
