I just think, a few dollars spent now is worth it as at such a crossroads.
What if W gets remarried and her new H has children younger than yours. Or, if her an new H have another baby? Who is going to lose out? That is my greatest fear. Our K's get less than what they would if we stayed together. Especially when they get older and go off to college/university.
LE - Bit confused here, are you going off topic a bit and not to do with my current predicament ? Back to the old, the kids lose out in the end, we will be ok ? As, I agree, but it's the one thing you cannot make somebody see, specifically if there friends are telling them they are so much happier now I've gone and they have a new partner and in the throws of the lust and fun of a new relationship.
My biggest fear is another man being more a part of their day to day lives than I, that scares the life out of me. Especially as they are so young.
