he said "dont you still have hopes and dreams of us getting back together?"
Kissak, I wonder what did you tell him? I wouldn't know what to say...
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Maybe if he was suspicious that someone else was on the scene (there doesn't have to be- just a bit of mystery?) it might provoke a thought that he might lose you?
Lisa, I don't think it would work in my case as well. Just a feeling. He is not the type.
nlt, I can hardly belive it myself but yes, he's doing it again! My H is addicted to limbo!
BTW, he didn' call yesterday. We didn't have much of a R talk and still he felt like hiding in his cave.
My BFF suggested I tell him casually: H, enough of this BS. Come back. I must be out of my mind but I'm considering it
Then again, my other BFF is urging me to stop all the contact ASAP, tell him not to call, stop all the visits, etc. Her H of 25 years has left her for OW1, 20yo, then married OW2,30 yo, and now they are having their second child. When he started his MLC jorney he quit his job, because he hated it, started playing guitar and dating young girls. When I spoke to him last time, I've learned that he's still unhappy (surprise!) and had to go to his boss/partner and beg for his hated job back. He was lucky to get it. So now he's stuck with his new wife and old job and complains (to ME of all people!)about his hard life. His X, my friend, never talks to him or about him and seems to move on successfully. So may be I should listen to her. She also told me that I did sound much stronger in September and I shouldn't let him suck the life out of me.
(((everybody)))
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
