Ok I'm back guys. Well Plan B has been as I expected....CRAZY.. H chewed out friend who was mediator so had to get 3 mediators who are tag teaming from the forum for this plan(SAA).
My DD17 made the mistake of telling me that dad told them to basically go pound sand too. But regardless I am still staying dark. I will fight to keep my Plan B as close to book as possible.
Emotionally my thoughts run, I don't feel excessively bad as I have been in this place before. I think the Holidays are a lovely time to have him think about what he thinks is going to make him happy.
I am trying to stay focused and busy.
Planned a rather large Christmas Party so far 35 invites! And ya know there's more than 1 person per invo. Thought that might be nice to keep myself busy.
Want to plan something for new years eve too! Marisol check ur in box.
Sorry I haven't been on as much as usual guys, the last few days have been hectic. I know H is going to buck the mediator thing but no matter I can still stay dark and send any messages I just may not get any response.
Anyways glad to see ya'll are helping and supporting each other and me too!
Muah!
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
