Hi nlt, Thanks for visiting my thread. I am often thinking of you and how hard it must be for you knowing your H married OW. Oh well, as MWG said you are getting stronger each day. I am sure we will make it through the difficult period.
You know the funny thing is I do much better when I'm at home. Today I went out to run errands & started thinking about every think & every where my H & I went, I just got so sad! I miss him so bad some days that I can't stand it. So much of our lives we were doing things together all around here. Things have changed so much here but we were together when all was changing & it just doesn't seem real that he is gone.
Even when I would be running errands if we were not together we were always calling each other. I know we will make it through the rough times. I am doing my best to let go let God. That is all we can do right now.
just wanted to say hi :)! It's been a while since my last post.
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I miss him so bad some days that I can't stand it.
I can soooo relate...
(((HUGS)))
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
Hi nlt, Thanks for visiting my thread. I am often thinking of you and how hard it must be for you knowing your H married OW. Oh well, as MWG said you are getting stronger each day. I am sure we will make it through the difficult period.
You are in my thoughts. Take care. (((HUGS)))
Yes, we will all make it through this. And yes, we have our moments of disbelief, crying, anger, you name it and that is natural. Heck, I will even take it a step further and say that I have entertained thoughts that I no longer love my husband! My kids are more sympathetic toward him than I am these days. I just keep asking God to guide me and take evil thoughts out of my head.
Hang in there, nlt!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I'm trying to hang in there! I do have these moments that I just can't believe all this & I can't believe that he is off with OW!
We will make it through, it's just going to take time. My cousin has been thru this with his first wife & he told me not to try to rush things about getting over my ex that it is going to take a long time. Of course he is so mad at my ex that it wouldn't do for my cousin to see him right now. I'm like a little sister to my cousin & he lives in another state, I don't see him often but we do talk on the phone.
Again, I am doing my best to leave it in God's hands.
I am glad you have your cousin to talk to. Will you be spending Thanksgiving with your parents?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Today I went out to run errands & started thinking about every think & every where my H & I went, I just got so sad! I miss him so bad some days that I can't stand it. So much of our lives we were doing things together all around here. Things have changed so much here but we were together when all was changing & it just doesn't seem real that he is gone.
I can relate so well to this. Yes, all we can do is take it day by day.
Thank you for checking in on me! I'm having a really down day today, not sure why. I guess it's the holidays coming up. Normally this weekend we would have his family come to our house & I would cook then we would go to my parents for Thanksgiving day & my Aunt & cousin would come over. So sad & I wonder what he is doing for the holidays since I believe he is in another country. I'm still praying for him. And, yes we can only take it one day at a time.
I will be going to my parents house next Tues. or Wed. I'm supposed to get together with a friend of mine on Wed. night so that will be fun. Thanksgiving day my aunt & her son will be coming over for dinner & we will watch football, go Titans! My cousin has been divorced twice, his first wife just didn't want to be married anymore & his 2nd had an affair so he knows exactly what I'm going thru & he hasn't remarried again.
