I guess I needed the 2x4s. Wife has done NOTHING to put me in this slump. I know it's ME doing it to myself. I may be in part because of everything falling apart around me right now. I have been "ignoring" some of life just to get by. We had a meeting today at work and things don't look good. No talk of lay off's yet.... We do have some temp workers that will go first. The Area that I work in does have guaranteed work.. (Equipment Recertification Calibrations) that companies need done once a year. But they seem to be sending in less and less. Wife has not heard anything from the interview. I don't think she has called her cousin that works there to see what is going on with the job. I had a parent teacher conference with son's teacher. he just received his worst report card ever. He has always been an A-B student and now is bringings home D's.(well one D) The lady that was in my Mom’s room died. I can still see her eye's when she reached out her hand to me...It was like the news reels you see about the Jewish prison camps. The skeletons with skin. I don't know what stopped me from taking hold of it...... But.... I do get off early today to take me mom to see her doctor. Well I am going to meet the ambulance there. I can't get my mom into my jeep. I did tell her we can save the $50 transport fee if she would let me bring my Pick up truck and I could strap her down in the back. (She laughed but declined). Ok so now back to my date.......YES WDID AND SARA.... It IS in two days.... I have everything but the wine and rubber duck.... I am debating about sneaking my Wife bathrobe out of the house (for her to wear NOT me).. She does not usually wear it but I feel a little guilty looking in HER closet. Funny I don't care where she goes with my stuff but she is / was really "private" on her stuff. Also I am planning on getting there first. I think since it is a two bedroom there will be two bathrooms...If there is then I am going to set up the candles and stuff in the Master bathroom and block the door with some Police crime scene tape before she gets there... When she gets there and asks about it I will play dumb..
Well I need to get some work done today. Thanks WDID and SARA for the knock up along side my thick head..
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Ok, First my mom's doctor appt. went great. he said she is doing fine and may get to come home the wensday before thanksgiving. AND I not only found a rubber duck for the tub... It came with three baby ducks.. Perfect.. We have three kids
One more day of work and then it's off to a weekend of....
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Hmmm... how about something more man/woman like than mom-like? Perhaps one of those battery operated rubber duckies that are so popular as intimate personal devices these days?
I am trying to keep it not toooo Heavy. I will have the candles and the wine in a Ice bucket. As for the "intimate personal devices"... I got her one the day she left for the weekend that she told me she was going to see her "friends".( the weekend she spend with the OM. WHen I gave her it she said "I am never going to use THAT....." Ok so do you think I should just stick too the candles, Wine and bubbles? I was planning on drawing the bath just befor I left Friday.. Do you think it would be better Saturday after we had spent the day togeather? Draw the bath. Lead her there and let her know I will be in the other room if she needs anything? Maybe give her a bell to ring???? WHat do you think O.T ???? WDID.... Which would you rather have done if your H did this for you at this point in your M??
BTW O.T I spent about an Hour outside the Adult store before getting enough nerve to go in and buy such a thing. And then to have her not use it? I have not even seen it anywhere around. I bet she threw it away.. BUT.... I do not know this..
Talk to me I only have one more day to prepair...
Doc
Last edited by Dr LOve; 11/19/0809:51 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I see where you are coming from... maybe a different time and place the duck would be "qute". But Yes I AM trying to break the Mommy /Daddy spell.
Ok the duck will be saved for the pool next summer.. SO my other Question... I am going up to the time share on Friday. Wife will meet me there later. It's about 40 miles from our house and since I am driving back to MIL house that night I will only be able to maybe play a board game or two and have maybe one drink. What I was thinking was setting up the bubble bath that night. Have it ready. Then take her there tell her to enjoy, give her a kiss and tell her I will see her in the morning. Then I will leave and let her enjoy the solitude, and maybe some thoughts about us. OR do you think I should plan the bath for Saturday after we get back from the casino? That night I will be staying there….
Me
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Personally, the bath is a big seduction scene if you are there and I don't think she is ready for all of that. Keep the bath as a relaxing time for her only. I like your first idea (setting up the bubble bath that night. Have it ready. Then take her there tell her to enjoy, give her a kiss and tell her I will see her in the morning. Then I will leave and let her enjoy the solitude, and maybe some thoughts about us). You said she is stressed with her school stuff, etc. This would be nice...relax, sleep in the next day, maybe get some reading done and then you come the next day for some "couple time".
Wife has done NOTHING to put me in this slump. I know it's ME doing it to myself. 
I may be in part because of everything falling apart around me right now. I have been "ignoring" some of life just to get by. We had a meeting today at work and things don't look good. No talk of lay off's yet.... 
We do have some temp workers that will go first. The Area that I work in does have guaranteed work.. (Equipment Recertification Calibrations) that companies need done once a year. But they seem to be sending in less and less.
