I recognize and respect that not everyone feels that leading, Puppy. But some of us that do, and have tried like hell to get away from it, only to return...well, we eventually settle and only then is there peace. Yes, even on this rollercoaster there can be peace.

If a person doesn't feel that strongly - doesn't feel led - who could fault them for getting off the ride?
I sure couldn't. Hell, I've at times envied those people that were able to do so...but that's just never been in the cards for me.