Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #12

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I had an interesting conversation with W the other day about the holidays.

Last year for Christmas W was suppose to have the kids however, her friends invited her to go away with them so she ditched the kids for Christmas. She didn't even call them until the 27th. It was a clear sign of how messed up she is.

A few months ago, she said to me that she didn't have them last year, so she wanted them this year. I agreed even though I didn't want to. I'd rather have the kids for Christmas but at the same time, I took this to be a positive action on her part.

I have been asked lately by my family what is happening for Christmas so I called W to find out what her plans were. I told her that I would like to have them for part of the day and that I would like them for Christmas Eve both for family functions.

She quickly said that she didn't have any plans and that I should just have them for the whole day on Christmas and she would celebrate Christmas with them on Boxing Day.

So once again she has abandoned the kids for Christmas. Although, I wonder how much guilt and not having a job or money are factoring in to this.