To add to that I think that it might also depend on the WAS. In my case, my W is not very confrontational. However, in a situation where that wasn't the case, trying to be friends might be like trying to be friends with a shark.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
