Thank you for your thoughts and allowing me to see a objective point of view of what he is writing. Trust me, although I am still hurting and the stress of cleaning up the mess he left me with is overwhelming...I am moving on one day at a time.
I do have a business degree and started my master degree but have not completed it yet. I am highly considering finishing it because I only had a few more classes to take. My degree has allowed me a good job although I am looking for something new. My degree has also allowed me to be many steps ahead of my H because as you read in his email.....he wants to know how I am, has not pursued a divorce, but is willing to allow the house he abandoned me in [which is his legal debt alone] be sold and and a thing of the past for him....but we are still in it. While he is settled into an apartment with heat for the winter...."his" choices are not considering where are we going to go with such short notice. His actions are telling me he doesn't care if we are left homeless in the cold. Granted, I have a decent paying job but half my income left with very little support since.
My point is....he is giving me a deadline without any thought to how I feel or if I am secured in another place first. However, my attorney has everything and my H's world is in for a wake up call when he learns his selfish actions will cost him plenty. Mind you, this is the last thing I want to do but financially and with dependents, there is no way I can afford to relocate within 60 days if by some freak occurance it happens.


MrsJJJ
Me: 44
H: 44
Married: 7 years
Bomb: 7-25-08
Abandoned: 08-04-08
OW: Est. Jan 08; age 47/48
My kids / his step-kids
H excellent Dad / Kids miss him
S -22
D -20
D -15
Summons filed: 8-8-08
I do not want divorce
H to be served Nov, 08
for financial support