Nothing has happened yet, don't know if it will, I saw him for 20 minutes before class and he was being a sh!t, IMO, so we shall see if I can revamp my attitude before I go home.
Ali, funny you just posted, I spent the last 15 minutes reading your previous two threads so now I can read the current one without feeling I have missed something...
Really H wasn't being much of a sh!t, I guess. You guys tell me...I think I just was feeling threatened. He was going to take the kids swimming at the Y while I was at class. He said they were going at 6, which is when my class starts (I am here for class but prof. is sick so I am going to work on my term project...eventually!).
Anyway I was just starting dinner at 5:15 and H comes in the door. I forgot he took the afternoon off to work on the farm...so he got home early. I told him I was heating up chicken nuggets for the kids. He was trying to be funny and said, "If it's just heating up nuggets I can take them out for something", I took it as a jab at me and he said, "Relax"...
Then he told the kids to get their swimsuits, I went to get the swim bag and towels and he said, "Stop, I am taking them, I will get it ready". So I went to get the ketchup for the nuggets and he said, "I said I GOT it, I am getting them ready, don't worry about it". I felt he was being crabby with me. Excluding me. The three of them sat at the table and ate dinner while I stood at the counter clipping coupons, I couldn't believe he didn't include me...
He came in the kids' room to get [censored]'s coat and I was putting away laundry. I screwed up, I was mad, I said, "What is this, are you practicing having your visitation time?" He said, "No, relax....you don't need to dote on us when you should be getting ready for class, I have it handled..."
Funny, when he didn't help out I felt he was being a jerk and now that he was trying to do it all without me I felt he was being a jerk......
He did say goodbye and 'see you when you get home' when they left, so I just need to relax. ....
