Hey Julia, I keep checking your thread and thinking of you. I was sooo wanting things to change/move earlier on in my thread, I have done an appalling job of detaching, until now..we forget that all of this can take ageeeeeess to pan out. Look at T.. she is doing amazing and there was a period of NC at all for 5 months I think. Things just move real slow.
I hope he answers soon.. I take Lisas point and yuo are doing a better job than me of looking the other way, but I for one am super curious to know how he will respond.