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Re: Where there is sadness, joy LolaL #1651085 11/17/08 01:38 AM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	((((Lola)))) LOL Funny how keeping busy sometimes has that effect. $\:\)$ Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Where there is sadness, joy MichelleLT #1653411 11/19/08 05:50 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 882 Central CA M ms ladybug Member
ms ladybug Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 882 Central CA	HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Was it yesterday? Tomorrow? Is the baby here yet? Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."

Re: Where there is sadness, joy ms ladybug #1653478 11/19/08 06:34 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Thank you!!! It was yesterday, I turned a magnificent 41, and we have no baby yet . $\:\($ Soon, soon... H did not call me for my birthday yesterday, no text, no email. I am so frustrated! I have not heard from him in over a week, and I know all this is normal, but it is still making me pretty angry. Had a bit of a meltdown yesterday, but felt better after, but am still really exhausted. I cannot figure this out, and I really don't understand. He won't file for D, he says he is going to split the remaining bills we have down the middle but he has not done that either. He is so damned wishy washy, and I think the thing that drives me nuts the most is the fact that he cannot seem to make up his mind. I think I could handle it if he would just file, but this limbo crap is for the birds!!!!! Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Where there is sadness, joy LolaL #1653518 11/19/08 07:08 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	Yeah, limbo sucks. I am TOTALLY with you on that one. Happy Belated Birthday! I wasn't online much yesterday. But I was thinking about you! (((((((Lola)))))))) Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Where there is sadness, joy MichelleLT #1653551 11/19/08 07:29 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Thanks!!! All in all it was a pretty good day so I can't complain. Well, I can, but why bother? Its not going to change anything, so I am going to focus on the good things. Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Where there is sadness, joy LolaL #1653571 11/19/08 07:39 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA M mishka422 Member
mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	Quote: Its not going to change anything, so I am going to focus on the good things. That says it all, doesn't it? T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

Re: Where there is sadness, joy mishka422 #1653607 11/19/08 08:08 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Pretty much. Of course, I am treating myself tonight and going to see the psychic again. It can't hurt to know exactly what the hell is going on.... $;\)$ Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Where there is sadness, joy LolaL #1653820 11/20/08 12:45 AM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 533 Colorado M maninmotion Member
maninmotion Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 533 Colorado	Originally Posted By: LolaL Thank you!!! It was yesterday, I turned a magnificent 41, and we have no baby yet . $\:\($ Soon, soon... H did not call me for my birthday yesterday, no text, no email. I am so frustrated! I have not heard from him in over a week, and I know all this is normal, but it is still making me pretty angry. Had a bit of a meltdown yesterday, but felt better after, but am still really exhausted. I cannot figure this out, and I really don't understand. He won't file for D, he says he is going to split the remaining bills we have down the middle but he has not done that either. He is so damned wishy washy, and I think the thing that drives me nuts the most is the fact that he cannot seem to make up his mind. I think I could handle it if he would just file, but this limbo crap is for the birds!!!!! Good grief. I walk away for a little bit and Lola gets pregnant $\:D$ OK, youngster, I feel your frustration. Try shooting some of those birds off of the power lines. Dan M-40 W-41 D12 S8 D5 T-18yr M-14y Sep 4/12/08 rocky gasp confrontation current

Re: Where there is sadness, joy maninmotion #1654146 11/20/08 02:09 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Haha Dan...its my daughter, she is VERY pregnant, and we still have no baby.... Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Where there is sadness, joy LolaL #1656554 11/23/08 02:33 PM
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 647 R redhottie Member
redhottie Member R Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 647	Happy Belated Birthday Lola! $\:\)$ Maybe the baby decided to wait until Thanksgiving. R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008

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