Hey Lisa,
Did you read my mammoth posts (?).. I thought of you last night. After just 3 months together, my ex feels like, how can he undo this? He's upset me so much, "stuff has happened", he's in too deep, he didnt plan it or go looking, but now thats its happened, he doesnt know how to reverse it.. made me think of your H.. that must be massively true after a year+?

I thikn your only hope is if they break up, right? And I thought it was positive that he whinged a little about his holiday and said it was "nothing special".. bt then, poor woman hey?? What the hell is he doing with her if thats how he feels, it cant be a fulfilling R. I dont get these WAS. I really dont.

Well done on the multiple date scenarios. Shame about CEO and mystery 2/3 week woman.

Ali x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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